Narrative. Response. Belonging.

On the worst day of her life, Smajo Bešo's mother sat her three children down. It was January 1994, in the siege of Mostar. She had lost her sister that morning. Her husband was in a concentration camp. Her children were starving. She had every reason, every human reason, to teach them hatred. Instead, she told them that the best way to resist the people destroying them was to refuse to become like them.

She couldn't control the war. And leaders can't always control what is happening around them, the economy, the technology reshaping work, the uncertainty outside the building. But you can control the story you tell yourself and the people around you. And you can control what you choose on your worst day.

Disengagement is rarely about motivation. It's about belonging. At some point, something, or someone, told people they didn't matter. That their voice wasn't worth hearing. That belonging here was conditional. Most leaders inherit that problem without ever seeing where it started.

This is not a talk about getting through hard times. It is a talk about leadership, the hardest, most human kind. It gives leaders a way of seeing how their story, their choices, and their presence shape everything that happens around them.

This talk is built around three points:

• The stories leaders tell become the reality people live

• Your values are only real on your worst day

• People never forget the leader who made them feel they belonged

Why hire Smajo for this

The story that changes the room.

Smajo’s mother made the defining leadership choice of her life on the worst day of hers. His teacher created belonging for one child using nothing but a guitar and thirty willing classmates. These are not analogies. They are the real thing and they land differently because of it.

Practical, not just inspiring.

This talk gives leaders a concrete way to see how their daily choices are already shaping their team’s culture and what to do about it. Audiences leave with something they can apply on Monday morning.

Belonging as a leadership practice, not an HR initiative.

Smajo reframes belonging from a diversity and inclusion agenda item into a core leadership responsibility one that sits with every individual leader in the room, regardless of their title or their organisation’s policies.

Senior credibility.

Two decades of research and professional practice in how humans learn, lead, and belong across architecture, higher education, and survivor-led education at national scale. Awarded an OBE by King Charles in 2023. Trusted by senior audiences in Parliament, the Cabinet Office, and the House of Lords.

Your audience will leave with

• A clear understanding of why people disengage and what actually brings them back

• A clearer view of how a leader’s daily choices and language shape team behaviour and what to do differently from Monday morning

• Stronger alignment during change teams that hold together because their leader has given them a story worth staying for, not just a restructure to survive

• A new way of thinking about belonging as a leadership practice, available to every leader in the room, today, without a budget or a strategy document

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Working with Smajo

Smajo works closely with event organisers to make sure the talk lands in your specific context. This talk is available as a 60-minute keynote or a 90-minute extended format with structured reflection time. It also pairs naturally with a half-day training session.

Get in touch to check availability, discuss fees, or talk through whether this is the right fit.

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